Ask the Expert – Keys to Raising Healthy Children

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This week, Family Physician Dr. Michelle May offers a few tips to help you raise a healthy child by providing unconditional love, encouraging physical activity and promoting healthy eating habits.

Michelle May, M.D. Family Physician Graduate of the University of Arizona College of Medicine Founder of the award-winning Am I Hungry?® Mindful Eating Program Author of “H is for Healthy – Weight Management for Kids” Award winning author of “Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle” Website: Am I hungry LinkedIn Profile Twitter: @EatWhatYouLove

Question: How can I encourage my kids to eat well and follow a healthy lifestyle?

Answer:

With the launch of Michelle Obama’s Let’s Move campaign, unprecedented attention has been paid to healthy eating and physical activity in children. There’s a huge potential for benefit but two potential pitfalls that parents need to be aware of.

First, the focus really shouldn’t be on childhood obesity. All children (and adults!) benefit from increased awareness about their lifestyle choices. Singling out overweight children contributes to the stigma and shame they already face—and may cause parents, doctors, and others to mistakenly believe that the information doesn’t apply to normal weight children.

Second, restrictive diets haven’t worked in adults and they don’t work in children. Studies have shown that children who are restricted from certain foods at home and are exposed to those foods elsewhere are more likely to choose the food, overeat it, and feel guilty afterward. Sounds just like the last diet you were on doesn’t it!

Let’s look at the keys to the development of lifetime healthy eating and exercise habits:

Build Healthy Attitudes

• Demonstrate your unconditional love for your child. Children—especially overweight children—need support, acceptance, and encouragement from their parents.
• Build self-esteem by focusing on all of your child’s positive qualities, unique talents, and individuality. By developing interests and skills that increase their success and pleasure, they will be less likely to turn to food for fulfillment.
• Help your child develop good communication skills, encourage them to express their feelings, and teach them effective coping skills to decrease the chance that food will serve that purpose.
• Emphasize the importance of good health, not ideal weight.
• Never tease or criticize a child or adolescent about their weight. Such comments are hurtful and can stick with a person for a lifetime.
• Be a positive role model. When your child observes you enjoying healthful foods and physical activity, they are more likely to do the same.
• Most importantly, sit down and eat together as a family. Family mealtimes are a wonderful way to reconnect with one another and share your day. Mrs. Obama talks about playing “Roses and Thorns” – taking turns telling about the best and worst part of your day.

Enjoy an Active Lifestyle

• Help your child build a lifetime exercise habit by making consistent physical activity a high priority in your family.
• Reduce the amount of time your family spends in sedentary activities like TV and video games. Instead, plan fun family activities that provide everyone with exercise and enjoyment.
• For children who have been relatively sedentary, physical activity should be initiated gradually to avoid injury and discouragement.
• Encourage active play like biking, swimming, and playing ball.
• Participation in individual and team sports can be a great way to build coordination, athletic skills, and self-confidence.

Develop Healthy Eating Habits

• Children have the instinctive ability to regulate their intake to meet their needs. Respect these internal cues of hunger and satisfaction.
• Do not force children to clean their plates or bribe them with dessert for finishing their meal.
• Never use food as a reward. Reward desired behavior with praise, extra attention, and privileges.
• Do not comfort your child with food. Hug them and listen to them instead.
• Do not impose stringent food rules since this may lead to rebellious eating when the child is away from parental control.
• Don’t say or imply that some foods are good while others are bad. Instead, teach children that some foods are healthier than others. This will help them learn to balance eating for nourishment with eating for enjoyment.
• Provide a variety of delicious healthy choices for snacks and mealtimes. Suggestions include fresh or dried fruits, vegetables with tasty low fat dips, reduced fat cheese or peanut butter and whole grain crackers, yogurt, fruit smoothies, whole fruit ice pops, granola bars, turkey roll-ups, or snack mixes made of cereal, dried fruit, and nuts.
• A healthy breakfast is a great way to start the day and is important for optimal performance in school. Include protein and whole grains for energy and nourishment.
• Encourage children to drink water and fat free or low fat milk instead of sugary sodas, fruit drinks, and sports drinks.
• Promote a high fiber diet by giving your child whole wheat breads and pastas, brown rice, and five servings of fruits and vegetables daily. They will prefer these types of foods if that is what they’re used to.
• Since children (and adults!) have a natural preference for sweet and high fat foods, it’s reasonable to limit the amount of sugary and fatty foods that are readily available to encourage intake of more nutrient rich foods.
• Involve children in shopping, meal planning, and preparation. This is a great opportunity to teach them about nutrition—and they will be more likely to try new foods if they helped make them.

Download Keys to Raising Healthy Children flyer by Dr. Michelle May.

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